Loved & Secure
+ Connect to your truth
+ Heal your heart
+ Claim your worth
+ Break your relationship patterns
+ Regulate your nervous system
Heal your relationship patterns with EFT Tapping.
Let go of the past, rebuild unshakable confidence in love, and attract the secure, healthy relationship you deserve with 5 pre-recorded online EFT Tapping sessions.
Let’s have a quick chat…
You keep attracting emotionally unavailable partners. One moment, they’re all in. The next? They’re distant, unsure, or pulling away—leaving you questioning what you did wrong.
You overthink every little thing. The way they text, the time they take to respond, the way they said “goodnight.” You analyze their words and actions over and over in your head, trying to find some kind of certainty and your friends are sick of hearing about it and want to get paid for being your on-call therapist.
You crave deep, secure love, but when it starts to feel real, you panic. A part of you longs for the relationship you know you deserve. But when someone actually shows up with consistency and care, old fears kick in and you freak out and chalk them up as coming on too strong and moving too fast. You start to wonder: Do I even know how to receive love?
You’re scared of being “too much” or “not enough.” So you shrink yourself. You don’t express your true desires. You ignore the things that bother you and you have a chokehold on your throat chakra. Because deep down, you fear that if you say the wrong thing, set a boundary, or ask for what you want, they’ll leave. Next thing you know you’re riding out on that old abandonment wound playing nice and falling back on people pleasing tendencies just so you don’t end up alone.
You’ve done the “inner work.” You’ve journaled. You’ve taken breaks from dating. You’ve tried to love yourself more and do “self-care”. You’ve racked up a therapist bill trying to “talk” your way into healing. But despite all the self-awareness, something still isn’t shifting. The same patterns keep playing out, you spiral in the midst of an anxious attachment meltdown, you forget all your tools, and you don’t know why.
You feel like love works for everyone else…except you. Your friends are getting engaged. Your ex moved on so easily. You want to believe your person is out there, but a small part of you wonders if you’re just meant to be the one who always has to try harder. So you settle for crumbs, stay too long in relationships, because maybe you can “practice” heathly love in this situationship, or convince yourself that it’s better to be alone and own that “miss independent” identity even though deep down you crave intimacy and true partnership.
And honestly?
You’re feel
tired AF!
Tired of questioning your worth every time someone pulls away. Wondering if you said the wrong thing, if you were too much, if you should have played it cooler.
Tired of feeling like you have to earn love. Like you need to prove you’re good enough, pretty enough, interesting enough and coming from a place of wanting to be chosen rather choosing them.
Tired of being the one who always tries harder. The one who makes excuses for them. The one who holds space, who stays patient, who waits for them to figure it out, and pretend to be in your feminine “receptive’ let them chase me era only to be left with another heartbreak.
Tired of feeling emotionally drained from dating. Because every time you open yourself up, it feels like another rollercoaster. You get excited, start to believe in it, only to be left waiting, questioning, or heartbroken again.
Tired of telling yourself, “maybe next time it’ll be different.” Only for it to feel exactly the same.
Tired of hearing “love yourself first” like that’s the missing key. Because you do love yourself. You’ve done the work. And yet, the patterns still show up.
I see you…
You’ve done the inner work. You’ve journaled, even pulled tarot cards, and tried to “just focus on yourself” hoping that love would just magically land in your lap because you weren’t “looking” for love. But something still isn’t clicking. The same patterns keep showing up, and you don’t know how to break them.
That’s where the magic of EFT Tapping comes in.
What Makes Loved & Secure Different?
This isn’t another mindset hack.
This isn’t about forcing yourself to “just let go.”
This isn’t a fluffy “love yourself first” pep talk.
This is about getting to the root of your emotional patterns—the real reasons why you keep attracting unavailable love, shrinking yourself to be chosen, or feeling anxious when things do start to go well.
EFT Tapping is a proven mind-body technique that rewires your nervous system, clears emotional wounds at their core, and shifts your energy so you can finally attract the love you deserve without second-guessing yourself every step of the way.
Inside this EFT bundle, you’ll be guided through 5 transformative tapping sessions to release your fears, rewire your beliefs, and align with the kind of love that actually feels safe, certain, and secure.
I am ready
I am ready
Here’s What You’ll Get…
5 Powerful EFT Tapping Sessions for Love & Relationships
Healing Abandonment Wounds to Feel Secure in Love
✔ Stop fearing that people will leave once they get close.
✔ Rebuild emotional safety so love feels grounding, not anxiety-inducing.
Releasing Fear of Rejection to Date with Confidence
✔ Let go of the fear that you’ll be ghosted, breadcrumbed, or “not enough.”
✔ Show up in dating feeling secure in who you are, no matter the outcome.
Letting Go of Past Relationship Pain
✔ Finally release the heartbreak that’s kept you stuck in cycles of overthinking, comparison, or regret.
✔ Create space for a new, healthier relationship without fear of repeating the past.
Overcoming the Fear of Being ‘Too Much’
✔ Feel safe expressing your needs, setting boundaries, and showing up as your full self.
✔ Attract a partner who celebrates you—not one who makes you feel like you have to tone yourself down.
Attracting an Aligned, Loving Partnership
✔ Release self-worth wounds that have made you settle or chase love.
✔ Align with a relationship where you feel chosen, secure, and deeply cherished.
Heal your anxiety in relationships
$49
You’ll get unlimited access to these 5 x EFT tapping sessions, so you can revisit them anytime you need to realign, reset, and call in the love you desire.
“The inner work begins with you. You must love yourself first to live the life you truly desire.”
Your Future: Imagine This …
You wake up in the morning feeling at peace, not anxiously checking your phone to see if they texted back. You’re no longer stuck in the spiral of overanalyzing their words, their tone, or the way they pulled away last night. Because now? You trust yourself. You trust love. And you know without a doubt that the right person will choose you fully, without games, without hesitation.
Dating feels fun again. No more walking on eggshells, trying to say the right thing or worrying if you came off as too much. You show up as yourself—fully, unapologetically—and attract people who love you for it instead of making you feel like you need to shrink.
You set boundaries effortlessly. No more twisting yourself into a version you think they’ll like. If someone is inconsistent, vague, or emotionally unavailable? You recognize it immediately, and instead of trying to “fix” it, you simply say no, this isn’t for me—with confidence, with ease, and without the fear that you’re pushing love away.
You stop giving second chances to people who don’t deserve them. No more waiting, hoping, or making excuses for why they can’t show up fully. You see red flags for what they are, not invitations to prove you’re worthy of being chosen.
You feel emotionally safe in love. No more anxiety, no more overthinking, no more wondering if you’re “too much” or “not enough.” Because now, you’re attracting the kind of connection that doesn’t make you question your worth. You know deep in your bones that love isn’t something you have to chase.
You no longer mistake inconsistency for passion. The chaos, the “will they or won’t they,” the adrenaline rush of trying to win someone over? It doesn’t excite you anymore—it exhausts you. Instead, you feel calm, certain, and grounded in love. You crave stability, and you attract it effortlessly.
You meet someone who feels different. Someone who doesn’t make you question where you stand. Someone who shows up, who is clear in their intentions, who makes you feel safe, adored, and cherished—not because you had to earn it, but because you finally allowed yourself to receive it.
You fully choose yourself. Not as a last resort, not as a backup plan, but as your unwavering truth. You no longer sit in limbo, waiting for a text to come through and to be chosen on someone else’s terms. No more accepting love that’s inconsistent, conditional, or filled with uncertainty. You are the main character rewriting your old narratives and breaking old patterns and from that place, you attract the kind of love that mirrors your worth, meets you fully, and never makes you question where you stand.
And the best part? You didn’t have to chase it.
You became the version of you who attracts this kind of love effortlessly because you finally let go of the patterns that kept you stuck.
This is what’s waiting for you when you release the old stories, clear the subconscious fears, and start trusting yourself in love. And that’s exactly what this EFT bundle will help you do. This is a deep remembering of the Inner Queen that lives inside.
Meet Your Guide…
Hi, I’m Lisa May Francisco.
I’ve been where you are. I know the heartbreak of feeling like you’re always the one who gives more, waits longer, and ends up wondering, why does love work for everyone except me? I’ve done the inner work, but how much longer will I have to wait? What blocks can I release? How can I attract a healthy relationship?
Through EFT Tapping, Kundalini Yoga, and deep inner work, I completely rewired my own patterns and now I help women like you do the same. I no longer feel anxious in my relationships and I am connected to my worth, no longer second-guessing.
I’ve guided hundreds of women through emotional healing, helping them rebuild self-worth, release deep-rooted fears, and step into the most magnetic, confident version of themselves so they can finally attract the kind of love that feels safe and secure.
You don’t have to keep repeating the same cycles. You don’t have to keep guessing why it’s not working. You can transcend your relationship patterns and make shifts starting today!
- Chelsea
“I've met parts of myself I haven't in years. We uncovered layers that allowed me to connect the dots around things from my past that affect me now, and discussed how to heal and move forward. The work we did together was invaluable, and truly transformative!.”
-Steph
“Lisa helped me to peel layers off of the surface to discover my most raw and authentic version of myself. These small shifts led to my being able to more clearly identify what I need and how to make it happen so that I can live my most fulfilling life.”
-Lynne
“Lisa has an incredible gift of distilling messy emotions and unpacking their roots. She creates a safe container for vulnerability that opens clear pathways to transformation. Thanks to her clear-eyed insight and compassion, I've gained greater understanding of my relationship patterns and self-limiting beliefs that were preventing me from finding the intimacy I craved. I highly recommend her coaching to anyone ready to level up and live a more heart-centered life!”
-Jessica
“Before I met Lisa, I was a hamster running on the same wheel lost and repeating the same cycle and thought process. Lisa has helped me dive into a world unknown full of self-love and discovery. With the tools, guidance, and fervent dedication in seeing me succeed on my self love journey, Lisa was able to bring me out of my shell, claim my power, and really help me find myself and fall in love with myself! It has been a long journey of over 30 years of me overextending, people pleasing, and chasing money, relationships, etc and with Lisa, with her poise and expertise, she has led me to this point of being happy, confident, and content with me, just being me. It’s a journey, and it’s not easy but her guidance has helped me tremendously. Thank you Lisa :)”
